Monday, February 29, 2016
Friday, February 26, 2016
Yue's advice
State your preferred method of communication in the start
"You know I'd really like if you would communicate w/ me everyday"
Say it upfront what you need. Set the pattern from the beginning.
5 Love Languages
1. Words of Affirmation
2. Acts of Service
3. Receiving Gifts
4. Quality Time - put away cellphones
5. Physical Touch
Dateable Podcast Episode 7
Empathy: How can I show you the way you receive love
Are you working hard to show that you want to be w/ that other person in your life?
Get yourself some really good friends, bros or girls.
When you don't have solid relationships in your life, you'll latch on to anyone who will say something nice to you.
-Yue
"You know I'd really like if you would communicate w/ me everyday"
Say it upfront what you need. Set the pattern from the beginning.
5 Love Languages
1. Words of Affirmation
2. Acts of Service
3. Receiving Gifts
4. Quality Time - put away cellphones
5. Physical Touch
Dateable Podcast Episode 7
Empathy: How can I show you the way you receive love
Are you working hard to show that you want to be w/ that other person in your life?
Get yourself some really good friends, bros or girls.
You need to have a lot of support.
When you don't have solid relationships in your life, you'll latch on to anyone who will say something nice to you.
-Yue
Thursday, February 25, 2016
Thursday Feb 25 2016
From and including: Saturday, January 31, 1987
To and including: Thursday, February 25, 2016
To and including: Thursday, February 25, 2016
Result: 10,618 days
It is 10,618 days from the start date to the end date, end date included
Or 29 years, 26 days including the end date
21,549 days is age 59 years old
Sunday, February 14, 2016
2016 GOALS
130 lbs - Because people will judge you by your appearance
Zero debt - Because people will judge you by your financial situation
New job - Because people will judge you by your job
90 days in Japan - Plan the whole thing.
Look Taller - Your Posture, what u wear
Looks - Can you get girls to LEGIT rate you by your appearance?
JLPT Exam
Sunday, July 3 2016
FOCUS ON THE FUNDAMENTALS
Zero debt - Because people will judge you by your financial situation
New job - Because people will judge you by your job
90 days in Japan - Plan the whole thing.
Look Taller - Your Posture, what u wear
Looks - Can you get girls to LEGIT rate you by your appearance?
JLPT Exam
Sunday, July 3 2016
FOCUS ON THE FUNDAMENTALS
Conversation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUhj6QoM5YY
DATING ADVICE: How to talk to ANYONE, part 3 (DATING ADVICE FOR GUYS)Singlefied's advice
Set the right intentions
Be an effective deep listener
Know what the other party wants and needs and move the conversation along those lines
Sticky eyes, it's ok to blink
What does this person want?
What does this person need?
When a person is talking
Yue said
Respect for a person's name and ethnic heritage, it's not cool when people make fun of it
Pronounce my name right and make an effort to do so
Acceptance
Identity Issues
Problems w/ Fitting In
Things you shouldn't do
Don’t make tall offers. “I’ll be your host”. Apparently nobody takes this.
Don’t tell people what to think or do when you just met them.
A hard hit is a strong and tall order, that has long lasting consequences. Don’t use hard hits so much. It's more stressful mentally.
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